Change Only Happens If You Decide To Change.
If you decide and only if you decide, self change begins.
You then need to be consistent and persistent, in your actions to nurture self change. Self change can’t take place without you deciding. We tend to change if we have had an enough of our current situation or generally what happens, we are forced to change for example we could lose our job, a loved one, or something drastic will happen for us to change. We tend to ignore the signs and continue in our comfort zone.
This could be a sign for you. I don’t know what stage of your journey you are at, only this could be a sign for you to change. The question is what will you decide to do ?
Steve Jobs stated- “Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of other's opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary."
What are you doing that makes you happy? Are you taking steps towards your dreams? Are you letting other people get to you?
I am not going to sugarcoat it, I’m only human, yes what others say or do can impact me only I choose to make my own decisions. Life is so short and precise. We often take life for granted. My only suggestion to you is to decide to change anything that doesn’t make you happy. It’s not worth it.
If you imagine a time 5 years from today, what are you doing? What makes you happy? What new problems do you have? Are you even concerned with your worries of the past?
So ask yourself how can I change myself, & my life? What am I grateful for? Do you feel a shift from within? We can only start changing from where we are at. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Appreciate this moment and the many moments to come.
Change starts with you and only you 🤗